DEAR ABBY: My 18 12 months outdated step daughter determined so far one other girl. She’s dated guys up to now, however that is not the issue. We’ve got nothing towards the LGBTQ group. (My husband’s brother is homosexual.)
My query is ought to my stepdaughter spend time together with her pal in her bed room with the door closed?
If it was a boy, my husband will surely have an issue with him – concern of sexual exercise resulting in being pregnant.
We’re each old skool about it, however we have embraced her new relationship. However we positively don’t desire our home to be the connection level. It makes us uncomfortable.
How ought to we take care of this? — OPEN DOOR IN PENNSYLVANIA
DEAR OPEN DOOR: Strategy it the identical approach you’ll for those who have been writing in regards to the younger girl who has a boyfriend.
Inform her that you’re uncomfortable with sexual exercise in your house and like that if she entertains her pal in her bed room, she leaves the door open.
DEAR ABBY: My husband and I just lately moved to a smaller city from a big metropolis to be nearer to our new grandchild.
This city is populated by numerous older single girls and from day one they’ve been attracted in droves to my husband who’s an excellent wanting older man.
These girls act like I am not even there. They transfer very near us whereas we’re buying and flirt with him. I needed to bodily get between certainly one of them and my husband on a number of events.
Not solely is that this annoying whereas it is occurring, but it surely’s exhausting for me to make pals.
Multiple girlfriend has developed an unhealthy crush on him, so I now not belief different girls. what to do — JUST THE WIFE IN VERMONT
DEAR WIFE: You’ll need to determine how a lot you belief your husband to not stray and focus your efforts on making pals with others pairs.
It will even be good in case your husband may remind these girls that he’s married and that you’re there.
DEAR ABBY: My spouse went on trip together with her greatest pal. Whereas there, they visited a nudist resort. She admitted that she took off her bathing go well with and went swimming. Her boyfriend did too.
I used to be livid on the considered her undressing in entrance of strangers. I really feel betrayed. It sickens me to assume that she did this to me.
Am I fallacious to be concerned and offended in regards to the state of affairs? — DRESSED IN MAINE
EXPENSIVE DRESSED: I must know extra in regards to the clothes optionally available resort your spouse and her pal visited.
The nudist way of life is just not a weekend for singles. It’s usually utilized by complete households, and the ambiance is wholesome.
Please cease being defensive and ask your spouse to inform you extra about her “journey” which can have been nothing greater than harmless enjoyable and nothing to do with you.
You do not “personal” her physique, solely her coronary heart – for those who’re fortunate.
Pricey Abby was written by Abigail Van Buren, aka Jeanne Phillips, and was based by her mom, Pauline Phillips. Contact Pricey Abby at DearAbby.com or PO Field 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.
